The heart wants what the heart wants, and sometimes that means dating someone who is, ahem, a younger man. Sure, age-gap relationships are becoming more of a thing, but there are always those people who will do double takes at dinner or family members who say nothing but raise their eyebrows when they hear about your new boo. At the end of the day, who you choose to date—and why—is your decision. First order of business: What do you want from this relationship? Just get that straight before jumping into the youthful or any, really dating pool.

What To Know About Someone Before You Date Them



8 Things To Know About Someone Before You Date Them
But, time and time again, I speak a language many might find foreign, some deem offensive and others see as magic. That, in and of itself, is sarcasm. It is not only a matter of tone and delivery. Well-crafted sarcasm is attractive because it demonstrates intelligence, a sense of humor, emotional IQ, confidence, style and an edge of sassy flirtation. And, we all know most men love a little sass. They're part insult, part compliment. We will swoon.


30 questions to ask a guy you're dating to get to know him better
Like so many of my peers, I was surprised by how hard—and sometimes fruitless—dating had become. Instead, my single—and by single, I simply mean unmarried—friends in San Francisco have ranged between the ages 24 to There is no closeness without risk. This is both the awesome and impossibly hard thing about relationships.



This week, I had someone ask if I have any blog posts with advice for women dating a man with kids. My first piece of advice? Kidding again….